Phil Gilliam

name Phil Gilliam is a published author, a male wellness coach and founder of AverageGuy.com, where men learn to be confident while building strong relationships. In his coaching practice, Phil has helped hundreds of men transform their personal lives.

She Wants You to Ask Her Out

27th June 2009
We have all heard it; "The really hot girls don't get asked out." "The good looking ones are alone on Saturday nights wishing they had a boyfriend to take them out." "They are just simply waiting and longing for you to ask her out." "If you just ask he... Read >

Nice Guys Can Finish First

15th June 2009
What a joy it is to be the KING! I have approached, dated and had (and am still having) incredible experiences with lots of amazing and beautiful women ranging from conservative college students to strippers, love-the-world hippie types to cut throat exec... Read >

Be a Man; as You Were Born to Be

13th June 2009
Over the past 60 plus years men and women have become equal in almost every way, as it should be. However, something not nearly as positive has occurred in that same time period; men no longer act like men. They suppress their masculinity because of a con... Read >

Stay in Control When You Meet a Woman

12th June 2009
As a life coach it's incredibly rewarding to see a guy who has made a ton of progress on his self image, has grown confident in himself, understands that what he brings to the table is valuable to the women he approaches, seems to be clear that his abilit... Read >

Spend Some Time on Yourself

05th June 2009
How much time have you spent learning to be happy and build strong, healthy relationships? I'm betting almost none. Society and pop culture teach us that we have to go out there and work our butts off to earn the money and stuff that will make people look... Read >

Write Her a Great Love Letter

05th June 2009
One of the most underutilized ways to create an amazing relationship is the writing of love letters. Why? One of the things men immediately think when we mention them is "Oh God, how corny" or my personal favorite "You have got to be kidding me, I am n... Read >

Romantic Date Idea - The Best Kiss Ever

05th June 2009
A lot of guys are accused of having trouble coming up with romantic date ideas. Unfortunately there is usually good reason for this. Well, not anymore. Here is an inexpensive date that is extremely romantic and, best of all, you'll learn how to give her t... Read >

Next!

03rd June 2009
A lot of guys want to know how to deal with rejection. One of the main keys to overcoming any sort of rejection, whether it's with women or anything in your life, is to truly accept that there is a?.. NEXT! Let me explain. When it comes to women in t... Read >